Although tantrums can surely be unpleasant, try to see them as opportunities for your child to learn—about rules and limits, about feelings, and about self-regulation—all critical skills for life. Young toddlers can become easily frustrated as they learn to follow rules and understand limits. In order to follow rules and understand limits, children need to have self-control. By providing guidance and intervention that is appropriate for your toddler’s age and stage, you can help them learn to cope with strong feelings.